Past Book Club Reviews
The Children of Jocasta
by Natalie Haynes
Thursday, 31st July was Book Club time again and over a couple of drinks at The Prince of Wales in Farnborough we sat down to mull over what we thought of The Children of Jocasta.
This is a saga of Love, Death and Vengeance. It is a retelling of two myths from ancient Greece – the tale of Oedipus and the tale of Antigone.
This version, however, explores the experiences of the women instead of focusing on the men. Admittedly, the narrative veers here and there from the originals but with the women front and centre, these become two very different accounts.
The women are no longer supporting actors in the big story – they are the big story! Or, I should say, big stories. This approach allows us to see Oedipus in a lesser role – no longer the impossibly handsome, all-conquering Alpha male and ultimate tragic hero, but now just a supporting figure. And all the other men also appear in a far less flattering light.
The saga unfolds against the stifling atmosphere of a royal palace in a city cut off in times of plague and surrounded by bandits. We learn about Jocasta’s marriage, at 15, to a man more than 3 times her age. But he is the king and her father is greedy and ambitious so she, of course, has no influence over what happens to her. And then we see how her own fate affects those of the next generation; how her children unwittingly end up paying for the choices she made and the decisions she took. This is something we can all relate to; it is true for every generation in every part of the world. As it even says in the Bible, “The sins of the fathers shall be visited on the children.”
Although, in the original myths, the women are destined to play minor roles, here they display their strength and intelligence, and fight hard against the rigid control of a patriarchal society. Jocasta takes charge of her own fate and exerts herself to become queen, while her daughter Ismene’s strength lies in her astute and perceptive observation of her twisted family.
The narrative develops over two timelines – obviously what happens to Jocasta’s children takes place after her own story, but throughout the narration the two generations are interwoven and develop alongside each other. This allows the reader to recognise the interplay between the fates of the various characters and allows the tension in each story to build until the tragic end.
A Single Thread
by Tracy Chevalier
Our Book Club members met up again on Tuesday 24th June 2025. This time to talk about our latest book, A Single Thread by Tracy Chevalier.
This is a book about how women support and encourage each other, and about how they quietly and gently started to push against the archaic norms of a patriarchal society that had prevailed for generations.
The story is set in 1932, at a time when women were still expected to be wives and mothers, and had to crush any hopes or dreams, any ambitions or aspirations. Work and careers, money and success were for men only. Women were able to work of course but as soon as they married, they were expected to sacrifice themselves to a life of subservience and drudgery. Single women didn’t get away Scot free either, they were expected to care for their ageing parents and also give up any idea of a life of their own. Such was the lot of women. And it was ever thus.
But in the 1930s a change was being forced on society. The country had lost a whole generation of men in the First World War and things couldn’t carry on as they had. Things had to change.
Many young women found themselves single and alone. Compelled to cope in communities that regarded them as surplus to requirement as there were no men for them to marry, unmarried or widowed women were resigned to a life of non-acceptance and poverty.
And it’s in this new world that Violet finds herself. Her fiancé has been killed and she is now a ‘surplus woman’. On top of that, her brother has also been killed and she is forced to bear the brunt of her mother’s resulting bitter grief and resentment. Violet, however, bravely decides that she will not – as is expected of her – become an old maid and a carer for her mother. She will break away, start a new life and follow her own path.
Violet moves to Winchester and joins a group of women who embroider kneelers for the Cathedral. She finds support and community amongst these women, as well as stimulation and a sense of achievement. Nonetheless, her struggle for independence is not an easy one, especially with the threat of another war on the horizon.
Never Let Me Go
by Kazuo Ishiguro
Never Let Me Go is a book that made quite an impression on the Book Club. When we got together to talk about it on Wednesday 21st May 2025, it provoked a lot of discussion about ethics and morals, about the sanctity of life and the fate of humanity.
At the beginning of the book, we meet Kathy; she describes herself as a carer and is obviously a kind and compassionate person. She starts to talk about her younger years and draws the reader in to the world of Hailsham, the idyllic boarding school in the English countryside, where she enjoyed a seemingly privileged childhood. Kathy reminisces about her friends and her teachers; her memories of her time at the school are thoughtful and sometimes tender; her childhood appears to have been untroubled, even happy.
But then, slowly, the reader realises that there is a subtext to the story. Something else is going on. We learn that Kathy and her fellow students are in fact clones who have been bred to provide replacement organs and body parts for people who fall ill. They will never grow old, they will never have children or marry, have a career or what we would consider to be a normal life. Horrifyingly, we realise that as they grow older, Kathy and her fellow students are aware of – even resigned to – their fates. They know how their lives will end and that they will finally care for each other as their lives draw to a sad and painful close.
This is heartbreaking.
We talked at length about this as a possible scenario for the future, about the abuse of science and how the advance of science is used as a justification for what initially appears to be positive progress but ends up as a series of horrifying atrocities. We discussed too how people accept inhumanity as long as it does not affect them personally, how they excuse barbarity and monstrosity as long as they can claim ignorance of it and do not have to bear witness.
This book has a sober message for the future.
The Christie Affair
by Nina de Gramont
April 2025
We all know Agatha Christie, the world-famous Queen of Crime. Her writing career spanned 55 years; she wrote 66 novels, 14 short stories and another 6 novels under the name Mary Westmacott. She also wrote the world’s longest running play, the Mousetrap, which has been performed in London’s West End since 1952.
Or we think we do!
Some of us in the WI-Flyers Book Club had never heard the story of Agatha Christie’s disappearance for 11 days in 1926 and so we decided to investigate further.
On 4th December 1926, Agatha Christie’s car was found abandoned, teetering over the edge of a chalk cliff at Newland’s Corner, near Guildford. The lights had been left on. Her fur coat and driving licence were still in the car. But it was empty. What had happened? Why? How?
The Christie Affair is Nina de Gramont’s imagining of what might have occurred in the run up to, and duration of, those 11 days. Why did Agatha Christie disappear? Where did she go? What really went on? She weaves a story that is imaginative, plausible – but do we believe it is accurate? Although, that doesn’t really matter. The book is an enjoyable read with interesting characters, lots of mystery, and a few plot twists and turns. What we do know is that Agatha Christie turned up again in the end. And went on to become very rich and famous.
The mystery certainly piqued our interest, though and so on Saturday 5th April 2025 the Book Club members decided we would go and take a look around Newland’s Corner for ourselves. What would we see? What would we find? Might we learn something more?
But that, as they say, is another story …
The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy
by Douglas Adams
On Wednesday, 19th February 2025, the members of the WI-Flyers (Farnborough) Book Club got together at their favourite haunt (oh yes – The Prince of Wales!) to talk about The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams.
This is a book that rose to prominence in 1979. At the time, it was very much cult reading, enjoyed by a young generation for whom space travel and the exploration of other worlds was exciting and new … but by no means impossible. We had, after all, long since had the moon landings.
Yes, it’s science fiction and no, I don’t like science fiction. It is definitely not my genre of choice. But this book is full of humour; it is also clever, insightful, philosophical, and massively prophetic. It is an examination of the human condition and a warning to future mankind.
Within the first few pages, the world has been destroyed, and there are only two human survivors, who initially don’t know of each other’s existence. Their guide is an alien from another world, who questions their views and provokes their reasoning – human, cultural and traditional. Why do we behave the way we do? Why do we think the way we think and believe the things we believe? Are they really reasonable? Are we right?
Most striking of all, however, are the novel’s predictions about the future world – what is now OUR world. It tells of things which in 1979 must have seemed so far-fetched – fantastical, even impossible. But these are everyday things for us now. Computers that speak, hand-held devices that we communicate through, remote headphones, electronic translators, an electronic encyclopaedia, electric screwdrivers – Adams even predicts the Internet and Google.
This novel is full of social comment. It makes fun of many things but in doing so makes us aware of humanity’s ignorance and through our sense of self-importance shows us our limited view of the universe. It makes us think about the abuse of science, and about the absurdity of bureaucracy and politics. It is a satirical prediction that should serve as a warning to those of us living now.
Alarmingly, one of the characters Arthur meets is The President of the Imperial Galactic Government. He is a pompous, vain man with little intelligence and no understanding of how politics actually works. His only motivations are self-promotion and absolute power. Somehow, however, he has managed to bamboozle his electorate with charm; he tells them what they want to hear but without any intention of ever fulfilling his unrealistic and unachievable promises. He throws his followers off kilter with his constant changes of mind and opinion. Does that remind you of anyone?
The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy is very well written; the humour is understated – it’s dry and witty. It has also wormed its way into our everyday lives. We use expressions or ideas that originate from this book without even realising it, for example, ‘Don’t panic’, ‘Time is an illusion’ or ‘Resistance is useless’ all come from The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy. The book is the first in a series by Douglas Adams – a ‘trilogy of five books.’ Can you work that one out? No, neither can I. But I am keen to read the rest of them.
The Girl With The Louding Voice
by Abi Dare
The Book Club met up again on Tuesday 7th January 2025 to talk about our latest read: The Girl With The Louding Voice. This is a book about the power of the human spirit. It made us all feel humble as we recognised how easy and privileged our own lives were, and acknowledged our admiration for the simple young girl whose determination enables her to escape her own fate.
Aduni is a young girl, whose life is beset by misfortune; however, she decides to stand up for herself and direct her own future. Her mother had instilled in her that the only way to get a louding voice – i.e. to be able to speak for herself and decide her own future – is with an education. Aduni decides to study hard and become a teacher so that she can, in turn, provide others with this opportunity.
When her mother dies, however, everything starts to fall apart. Aduni’s mother’s financial and practical support for her education end and her father forces her to become the third wife of an old man, who is desperate for a son and heir. She is forced to leave her village and her family; without the support system she has always known she is lost and afraid. Eventually, she breaks away from this life, only to find that she has exchanged one set of horrors for another. Her life goes from bad to worse and she finds herself on the run.
Aduni does not give up, though. Hoping to make a better life, she makes her way to Lagos but there ends up in a life of miserable servitude.
Aduni manages to resume her education when she meets a neighbour, who helps her to improve her English. She had always been proud that she was able to speak English, but slowly learns that her mastery of the language was poor. As she learns to express herself more accurately and speak more correctly, her self-awareness grows, and she determines to stand up for herself. In the end, she comes to recognise that speaking good English is not the mark of success she believed it to be, and that her own native language is just as valuable and valid. She learns confidence in herself, who she is and where she has come from.
The Code of the Woosters
by P G Wodehouse
Another meeting of the WI-Flyers Book Club was held on Wednesday 1st May 2024, again in our old haunt, The Prince of Wales in North Farnborough.
We had decided it was time to read another classic but wanted something light and fun this time round and The Code of the Woosters definitely delivered in that respect.
The Code of the Woosters was amusing and entertaining; it had hilarious and outrageous characters, and a preposterous plot – the perfect recipe for a good old Jeeves and Wooster farce.
P.G. Wodehouse is a genius of comedic writing and a master of English prose.
The book is a ridiculous farce from start to finish. Our hero, Bertie, goes through life without an iota of common sense, he is unable to accomplish the simplest of tasks without messing things up. But luckily, his brilliant valet, Jeeves is his guardian angel and general problem solver. Jeeves extricates Bertie from the most ridiculous of situations – from unwanted marriage engagements to threats to his reputation and even to his life. It’s all in a day’s work for Jeeves.
And amongst all the hilarity Wodehouse makes acute observation on pre-war English upper-class society; he knows this world and all its characters well as it is the one he grew up in. He even throws in a bit of period political satire for good measure.
With Jeeves and Wooster, Wodehouse hit on a winning formula; their adventures have amused readers for generations. The Code of the Woosters itself has enjoyed great success. The book been included in lists such as The 15 best comedy books of all time or The 100 greatest British novels, it has also been adapted into a radio drama, a television series and even a West End play.
So, what is the Code of the Woosters? Well, you’ll have to read the book to find that out.
Old Rage by Sheila Hancock
The WI flyers were, I would say, underwhelmed by Old Rage. One member was so bored by it she could not finish it. The majority thought it was okay but nothing to write home about. I personally enjoyed aspects of it and a Sunday Times bestseller, they wrote that it was "A gloriously irreverent memoir from the front line of old age." The Daily Telegraph wrote that it was "never less than courageous and often desperately moving."
I thought it was a touching exploration of human emotions, aging and resilience against a backdrop of Covid. Personally, I liked the comparisons with how people managed in the second world war to how we as a society managed through Covid times. Her storytelling introduced characters and experiences, drawing readers into the intricacies of life's complexities. It certainly made me consider that at the time of lockdown, we didn't give much thought to how much our single elderly population. Hancock's portrayal of old rage offers a thought provoking reflection on the enduring spirit within us all.
Her political leanings were obvious, and I could almost fell the rage coming through her writing, she is feisty and honest and I found that refreshing. She deals with Brexit, medical diagnoses, and bereavement and it is clear that she is angry even before she gets to the topic of lockdown. The book allows her to reflect on the decades proceedings this period of her life and as uncomfortable as it is for her, she looks to the future too. Despite the age and the rage, there are some humourists moments in the book.
Despite this most viewed it as one for the charity shop.
The Marriage Portrait by Maggie O’Farrell
After a bit of a hiccough - we had to reschedule a couple of times due to some last-minute unavailability and illness - the WI-Flyers Book Club finally met up on Wednesday 4th October 2023. Over a glass of wine at the Prince of Wales in Farnborough, we talked about our latest book: The Marriage Portrait by Maggie O’Farrell.
Admittedly, we had chosen this book as a year previously we had read, and thoroughly enjoyed, her previous novel, Hamnet. The response to The Marriage Portrait was a bit of a mixed bag - some of us really liked it, others … maybe not so much.
As with Hamnet, Maggie O’Farrell has taken an actual - relatively insignificant - occurrence in history. She has allowed her imagination to play with it, expanded it, and delivered to us a whole story about what she feels could have happened. In this case, the action revolves around Lucrezia de’ Medici, a very young woman from an Italian noble family. In 1558, at the age of 15, Lucrezia is married off to a neighbouring Duke. However, within a year of her marriage - at the age of only 16 - Lucrezia is dead.
Why? How? What actually happened? These are questions that have persisted through history. Was she ill? Did she have an accident? Was she murdered? No one really knows.
Nevertheless, Maggie O’Farrell has given us her version of what could have happened. Could it be the truth? We will never know. But the story she gives us is a very good read.
It deals with issues such as the place of women in history, the restrictions imposed on them, their powerlessness, their vulnerability, their role as scapegoats. It also examines the dynamics of life within noble a family and the ensuing difficulties - for everyone, including those in power. It deals with abusive relationships, how they develop and play out.
If you are a lover of historical fiction, then this is a book you will enjoy.
Bookworm
The No. 1 Ladies’ Detective Agency
Alexander McCall Smith
If ever there was a book to restore your faith in humanity, to lift your spirits and make you smile – this is it.
The No. 1 Ladies’ Detective Agency is the first in a long series of stories about Mma Precious Ramotswe and her detective agency, and I challenge you not to be utterly charmed by her and her beautiful view of the world.
This is a woman whose glass is, without doubt, permanently half full. Despite the hardships she has faced, Mma Ramotswe is full of compassion, understanding, and love.
She is fiercely proud – of herself, her family, her community and her country. She knows her own mind, and is nobody’s fool; she is astute, steadfast and irrepressible. But above all, she has a wonderful understanding of the human soul, recognises the frailties and fears in us all, but is still able to convince herself of the goodness in her fellow man and to show compassion in the face their weaknesses.
McCall Smith draws you in to the beauty of Africa, Botswana, is clearly a place he knows very well and loves very much. His great affection for the country is evident in his descriptions of the landscapes and the people. He understands the people and displays great empathy with them; he does not judge, he does not criticise or ridicule. He admires their pride in their culture and their traditions, and shares their desire to live their lives in their own country on their own terms.
Hamnet by Maggie O’Farrell
After a long, hot summer the WI-Flyers (Farnborough) Book Club members met up again at their usual haunt, The Prince of Wales on Wednesday 7th September 2022 to talk about their latest book: Hamnet by Maggie O’Farrell.
This is a book for lovers of historical fiction. It brings to life the atmosphere of Elizabethan family life, life in the country, in a small town and in London.
On the surface, it is a fictionalised story of Anne Hathaway and William Shakespeare, and the death of their young son at the age of 11, but it is also a moving and uncomplicated tale about a marriage, a family, and the loss of a child.
With the death of the son, everything changes. The parents have to acknowledge each other’s grief and understand that they have dealt with it in different ways … whether that is by shutting down, or by blocking it out. The child’s death affects everyone in the family and the story shows how the resulting anguish can be all-consuming, how it changes people and how it affects their relationships.
This is a moving story, powerfully told; it is a beautifully written exploration of marriage and grief, full of compassion and gentleness.
Still Alice by Lisa Genova
A review of our thoughts and discussions after reading Still Alice by Lisa Genova
The majority of us found this book interesting and well written, but felt the subject matter was depressing. It tells the story of Alice Howland, aged 50, a celebrated Harvard professor’s descent into early onset Alzheimer’s disease.
The book is written from Alice’s perspective which we all found different from other books we had seen on this subject. We had good discussions about how different members of her family dealt with this news and how Alice’s relationship with them changed as the disease progressed.
Her children could also be tested for this genetic mutation and two of them decided to be tested and one preferred not to know. We discussed our own feelings about this and the positives and negatives of having this information.
Alice wanted one last sabbatical year with her husband, but her husband decides to keep working and also wanted her to move from the Cape to New York. Her husband’s reactions and decisions throughout the book give us a rich source of material to discuss.
Carole Pidgeon
Girl, Woman, Other
Last night The WI-Flyers book club discussed the 2019 Booker Prize Winner, Girl, Woman Other, by Bernardine Evaristo. the book follows the lives and struggles of twelve very different characters, mostly women, black and British. Each Character is given their own chapter, covering many decades, and as the book evolves you see how their lives are connected.
We all really enjoyed this book, and it created the opportunity to discuss so many topics from racism, misogyny, gender identification, and betrayal, to how the lack of punctuation effected how we read the book. Don't be put off by the heavy topics, the book was full of humour, and so well written It will need to be read again.
The Thursday Murder Club
It was murder mystery time! And so, on Wednesday 21st July 2021 the WI-Flyers Book Club met up in Penny’s Garden (adhering to social distancing guidelines) to talk about The Thursday Murder Club written by Pointless and House of Games TV presenter, Richard Osman.
As we downed glasses of Pimm’s (and secretly - or not so secretly - admired Penny’s beautiful summer house) there was much discussion about how, or even whether, we had enjoyed this read.
The Thursday Murder Club is a decent enough book; it’s light-hearted, easy to digest, fun. But we all agreed that it wasn’t worth all the excitement that has surrounded it; this book is not the great literary masterpiece is has been made out to be. Richard Osman obviously has a top promotion team that knew how to milk every opportunity and ensured his book received maximum publicity. Call us sceptical, but we all wondered whether it would have been such a massive success if it had been written by someone else.
Having said that, it is an enjoyable, inoffensive, untaxing book to read. The story is set in an old people’s home. No! - a ‘luxury retirement village’. Coopers Chase is a place we all decided we want to retire to, when the time comes. The residents all enjoy luxury flats, fabulous communal facilities, busy, active social lives, and a steady supply of good wine. What bliss - a retirement full of affluence and comfort … admittedly, with the odd murder. Or two.
As the title suggests, this is a murder story. Contrary to tradition, the crime solvers are a group of octogenarians - people normally written off by the rest of society. This wily troupe manage to get to the bottom of things and effortlessly outsmart the police. Along the way there are lots of red herrings … and a plethora of deaths. One of the recurring themes is the grey area between the law and each character’s moral code. The book questions whether it is wrong to do something that is against the law, even if it is the right thing to do?
It is gratifying to read about old people who are still capable of doing things and thinking things through, and out-foxing younger, professionals at crime solving. As the crime writer Val McDermid warned, “Never underestimate the elderly!”
The Salt Path by Raynor Winn
On Wednesday 20th January the WI-Flyers Book Club met up for its first meeting of 2021. In a lively meeting held over Zoom we talked about The Salt Path by Raynor Winn, which tells the true story of a couple who lost everything and embarked on a journey of salvation across the windswept South West coastline.
Raynor and Moth owned a farm, which was their family home and provided them with an income. But all of this was lost following a bad business decision and some bad luck. A few days later, they learned that Moth was suffering from a rare degenerative brain disease and had only a short time left to live. With nothing left and little time, they impulsively decided to walk the South West Coast Path, a 630-mile-long sea-swept route from Minehead in Somerset, via Devon and Cornwall to Poole in Dorset.
They were a couple in their 50s, broke and broken. With almost no money for food or shelter, they had to carry the essentials for survival on their backs as they lived wild in the ancient, weathered landscape of cliffs, sea and sky. They survived on very little food and every night they wild-camped in a different place; and they kept on walking. The walk gave Moth and Raynor some sense of purpose; as Raynor says, “We really didn’t have anything better to do.”
Homelessness was not something Raynor had previously ever thought much about, and she certainly never dreamed it would happen to them. But because of their homeless state the couple found themselves confronted with the preconceptions and prejudices of local inhabitants and other walkers, they were accused of being drunken tramps, they were feared and sneered at. They learned very quickly to tell people a sanitised version of the truth – that they had sold their house and were having a midlife experience, just going where the wind blows.
Yet through every step, every encounter, and every test along the way, their walk becomes a remarkable journey. The Salt Path is an honest and life-affirming story of coming to terms with grief and the healing power of the natural world.
The Marrying of Chani Kaufman
by Eve Harris
“Sometimes God challenges us by making life difficult. We are given a choice to get angry and resentful with Him or we can learn and grow from the problem He has given us. Maybe, Mrs Levy, God is trying to tell you something?”
On Wednesday 7th April 2021 the WI-Flyers Book Club dialled into Zoom, put their heads together and got their tongues wagging to talk about The Marrying of Chani Kaufman by Eve Harris.
The story is set in an ultra-orthodox Jewish community in north London. This is a world where life is governed by religion and tradition, strict values and limited expectations.
It tells the tale of 19-year-old Chani and how she becomes to be married. We learn how Chani and her peers meet and choose the partner they will spend the rest of their lives with. But we also see her decide what is right for her, and fight for the boy she has decided upon. Despite the conventions and the limitations of the society they live in, Chani and Baruch want to do things their way – and we ask ourselves, do they represent the future of their community?
There are many other characters – some funny, some sad, many of them overly stereotypical. Chani’s husband-to-be, is a studious yeshiva boy whose aim is to become a rabbi himself. His mother, Chani’s future mother-in-law, is a crashing snob who disapproves of her son’s choice and does her utmost to sabotage the young couple’s plans to marry. Chani’s long-suffering parents lead a traditional orthodox marriage, that they accept without question or complaint. Rivka’s husband is so consumed by his religion that he has cut himself off, not only from the outside world, but from himself … and from his wife and his son. Rivka’s son is the rebel who steps outside his social boundaries, but then finds that the strength he gets from his faith is more powerful than the freedom and excitement of the outside world.
Together, they make up the world Chani and Rivka live in. And the question is – will they continue to do so